Revealed a new U.S. study, conducted by researchers from the National Association to protect children from rape, that most sexual assaults on children are made by persons of trust like a family, teachers, coaches, and more than harassment reality of people strangers, The findings come on the website of the Association in the thirteenth of the month of April.
The study pointed out that most cases of sexual abuse of children remains a secret inside them without can make with their parents for fear of punishment, and thinking that what happened was their mistake, which will be punished by the Avhoh, so should parents should seek to remove these misconceptions by opening channels of contact with them and build bridges of confidence between them and their children.
To overcome the fear of children from reporting the facts of sexual assault, researchers suggested that children learn two or more persons other than the father and mother, so trust them blindly trust and talk to them about any sexual abuse or any risk that threatens them.
And advised the study, parents should talk with their children, in a simple, for sexually abusing children, and give them the idea of ??a brief with him, so when they reach the third or fourth years of age, and the emphasis on them not to get candy or gifts, or even talk or walk with people who do not know .
Should also be on the family need to speak with the child or the child about the improper conduct of sexual assault, such as touching, kissing, annexation and other images of other improper, and also ensure that the child has become sufficiently absorption because the distinction between what is right and what is wrong behavior of others towards him, and that the report he felt the actions of any inappropriate or uncomfortable, even if they occurred from a family member or teacher or coach or one of the priests and church officials, or a young child or another.
The study added that parents teach their children the ability to discount when exposed to situations of sexual assault, and that they are able to say "no" in the face of trying to beat them, or to resist as much as possible this person is the victim, or at least asking for urgent assistance from others.
The study concluded with some guidance and alerts, which must be provided by parents to their children about avoiding sexual assault:
1. To talk with children about the finishing touches are allowed from others such as hugging or link on the shoulders, as well as inappropriate touches, which include targeting sensitive areas.
2. Do to prevent anyone trying to touch the areas covered by the lower underwear, because it is sensitive areas, are excluded only when parents assist him or her in the bathroom, as well as doctor and nurse him when detected or when using injections.
3. Inform your child or your child that cries by saying "no" in the face of trying to touch the sensitive areas of its own.
4. Emphasis on the child's need to report immediately to the father, mother or grandparents or any person with confidence from any attempt to assault him sexually or when any person touching his genitals in any form or image.
In the event of sexual assault on a child, you should report the incident immediately to the nearest police station or a rape, control centers, with go immediately to a specialist children to deal with this problem.
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